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8/10
The separation
jotix10021 March 2006
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When we first meet Anne and Pierre, they seem to be a normal couple. They are dining out with their friends Victor and Claire. The first thing that raises our guard is when we see Pierre caressing Anne's hand at the cinema where they are watching a film. Anne, seems unduly irritated, for a woman that is happily married, when she takes her hand away. Later on, when Pierre meets Anne for lunch, her face reveals she is not physically in the restaurant with her husband; her mind is someplace else.

This tightly knitted film, directed by Christopher Vincent, who collaborated on the screen play with novelist Dan Franck, is a visual feast for lovers of the French cinema, as two of the best actors are paired to get inside the couple at the center of the story.

It doesn't feel strange that Anne confesses to Pierre that she has fallen in love with someone else. Anne is a woman that seems distant, even with her young son, Loulou, an eighteen months toddler, who must have arrived late in her life. At the same time, she gives the impression that she doesn't hate Pierre. In fact, after confessing to having another love interest, she cuddles in bed with Pierre.

Pierre, on the other hand, can't believe Anne could have betrayed him. He is a devoted husband and a loving father to his young son, who is the center of his life. Pierre realizes he will lose custody of Loulou because the French laws favor the mother as the natural custodian. The real surprise comes toward the end, when everything seems lost for Pierre. Anne confesses she has ended the liaison with this mystery man for good. That confession makes us wonder if there was ever such a person. Was Anne testing Pierre's love, or was she suffering boredom from a too normal life and wanted to add a spark to it? We never get to the answer, which will be different for many viewers.

The best achievement of this film is the superb acting Mr. Vincent got from his two stars. Isabelle Huppert is an enigmatic Anne. We never know where she is at any given time. In contrast, Daniel Auteuil's Pierre makes us feel the pain that has been inflicted in his heart by Anne's admission of another man in her life. Both actors give wonderful performances, guided by the director.

This film is painful to watch because of the raw intensity of what we see on the screen.
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8/10
It's easy to see only one side of this story; don't be blinded to what's on the other side.
pie-36 December 1998
Any person who has seen and loved Un coeur en hiver (The Heart in Winter) should see this film as well - it also stars the melancholic Daniel Auteuil. It's almost painful to see him laugh. A film that contrasts the bitterness of betrayal with the sweetness of intimacy, La Séparation delves into the anatomy of a break-up - the growing coolness, lack of concern, estrangement that can exist between two people who still are the primary characters in one another's stories. The couple is not married, but have a home, son, and life in common. Even as they discuss the thing that has come between them, the two cuddle; indeed, were the dialogue silenced for a moment or two, it would be easy to believe they were comforting each other. And indeed, they attempt to soothe each other even as they seem to rend their relationship beyond reconciliation. There is a great reluctance to separate, but is this because of love, comfort, or the fear of starting over? See this movie alone, and don't plan to go dancing afterwards. Buy a bottle of red wine on the way home from the theater (if you are fortunate enough to see it in one).
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8/10
Superb acting in a flawless production
raymond-158 January 2001
Two of France's great actors give flawless performances as a couple whose marriage is sadly in need of repair. The problem started it seems when they allowed little irritations to accumulate instead of discussing them openly and finding immediate solutions. In a word, this film is about lack of communication between partners. It is so true to life that it's almost painful at times as the couple perpetually nit-pick and argue using hurtful suggestions and criticising every look and gesture. The dialogue is excellent - brief, terse, unforgiving with mounting impatience. As eavesdroppers on their marital problems we become emotionally involved and begin to wonder which of the partners will be the first to crack under the strain. Separation seems inevitable. Early resentments now become uncontrollable outbursts with physical violence. Which partner will leave first? Important to the story is the character of the 18 months old baby, intensely loved by both parents. The sweet innocence of the baby ( Nice little actor!)gives some relief to the bitterness of the sparring parents. Anne asks Pierre:"What made me fall in love with you?" She tells him. The answer will surprise you. The ending of the film may surprise you, too.
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Did he really exist?
mdefranc5 January 2005
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I wouldn't be surprised if Huppert faked her affair with the mysterious "lover" just to solicit her husband's attention. At the end it seems as if she had "forgiven" him and tries to win him back to their home. Her interpretations often grab the audience by the throat, leaving spectators often in a state of mesmerizing suspense, and I am using the word "mesmerizing" because of her ability to seduce and own the viewers' eyes. She is a woman who has a way with men, she makes them believe what she wants, she makes them want her and agonize over her, over her insane requests and behavior throughout the movies she stars in.

After seeing her in some of her movies, I feel comfortable saying that she could have been a good main character in Ozon's "Sous le Sable", where the role of the widow is played by a phenomenal Charlotte Rampling (remember when she runs on the beach at the end?).
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7/10
Well worth seeing.
mob61uk15 July 2002
This is a carefully crafted study of the break-up of a marriage. The subtle and powerful performances of Daniel Auteuil and Isabelle Huppert as the couple in question, and Vincent's well-paced direction of a good quality script, deliver a film that does not fall into the usual cliches of this genre.

Well worth seeing.
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6/10
A superbly acted nonstory
=G=11 May 2003
The aptly titled film "The Separation" scrutinizes the disintegration of the relationship between a couple (Huppert & Auteuil). That's it...no more, no less. Superbly acted by two of France's finest at the top of their game, the film has little going for it making it a fringe watch for foreign or French cinema buffs. Not recommended for general consumption. (B-)
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7/10
mis-communication
dromasca13 March 2021
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The story in 'La separation' ('The Separation'), made in 1994 by Christian Vincent, takes place in an interval of three months. During this time the couple formed by Pierre (Daniel Auteuil) and Anne (Isabelle Huppert) breaks up. Apparently, everything seems simple and straightforward. As spectators, we see in the film exactly what the title describes, the separation of a couple living a seemingly peaceful and comfortable common life, from the first signs to an explosion of violence beyond which there could usually be no return. But then, when the viewing is over, when we review and analyse what we saw, we come to the conclusion that there are many questions about the meaning of scenes, gestures and details, and that the seemingly simple and clear situations hide many layers and secrets open to different interpretations. It is one of those cases where the movie gets more interesting after we finish watching it.

Pierre and Anne seem to form a very typical middle class couple. He is a cartoonist, she is a therapist. They have a 15-month-old boy whom they both adore, but they do not give up their full professional and social life. The child is with a nanny during the day, sometimes also in the evenings when the two go to the movies or meet friends. We follow what is happening, especially from Pierre's point of view. Something begins to squeak in the relationship between the two - at first the refusal of a gesture of tenderness, then her mental absence during a lunch when it is obvious that her thoughts are elsewhere. Not long after, the confession appears, calmly, without drama - she fell in love with another man. We will never see this third character. We might even doubt that he really exists. The two continue to live together. Pierre is trying to save the relationship. The lawyers are mentioned at one point, but this is not a divorce film, the two are not even legally married. When their best friends announce their intention to get married, the news amazes them, the decision of the friends falling right at the moment when their relationship was getting as close as possible to the crisis. It is a film about contretemps, about the lack of communication, about the difficulty of understanding those close to us.

'La separation' largely relies on the two lead actors and both are wonderful. The story being told from Pierre's perspective, Daniel Auteuil was on screen most of the time. The actor admirably reproduces the man's attempts to absorb the blow, the gradual accumulation of tension that inevitably breaks out at some point, his attempts to save not only the appearances but also the essence of the relationship, but also the communication problems. Isabelle Huppert is ideal for the role of Anna. Few contemporary actresses know how to create so well an aura of feminine mystery around their characters. Wrapped in silence at many key moments, she does not reveal much of her secrets to either Pierre or the spectators. The description of the evolution of the relationship between the two avoids melodrama. The ending holds a surprise for the spectators, and leaves them to imagine their own final. I recommend to those who have not seen the film yet to look for it and write their own ending for the script.
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9/10
Some of the best pure acting you will ever see
marksdonaghy23 November 2004
La Separation makes you realize the value of true acting ability. Danilel Auteuil & Isabelle Huppert give a masterclass. I never thought that I'd be glad Juliette Binoche didn't turn up for work. The story has all the makings of a soap opera, but the thing that lifts this film is the simply marvelous acting. In other hands I think this movie would slip quietly onto the French equivalent of the Lifetime channel. There are no silences. In this movie one look speaks a thousand words. I struggle to think of any other movie where I have been so entranced by the pure acting of the male and female leads. More emotionally draining than Casablanca. This is a real weepy. Why? Because the acting makes you live the pain.
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8/10
The End of a Relationship
claudio_carvalho1 January 2012
In Paris, Pierre (Daniel Auteuil) and Anne (Isabelle Huppert) have been living together for a couple of years and they have the eighteen-month son Loulou (Louis Vincent), who stays with the nanny Laurence (Laurence Lerel) during the day while they work. Their best friends are the couple Victor (Jérôme Deschamps) and Claire (Karin Viard), who also are not married but live together.

Out of the blue, Pierre feels Anne distant from him and soon she discloses that she is in love with another man. Pierre seems to accept her affair but their relationship goes downhill, and Pierre becomes violent with her.

"La Séparation" is the most realistic and mature film about the end of a relationship, with the sequential phases of the separation process of a couple. The viewer does not need to have self-experience to understand, since he or she might have witnessed this type of process with friends of them. Daniel Auteuil is perfect in the role of Pierre and the bitch Anne is tailored for the magnificent actress Isabelle Huppert.

The conclusion is unexpected, but sometimes it may happen when the couple has just divorced. It is not totally clear or conclusive what Anne may expect from Pierre after her betrayal and bad treatment, but if Pierre accepts to return to her, their relationship will probably not last for a long period. In their first fight, they will split again and will not be friends anymore. This great film does not age and seems to be better and better each time the viewer sees it. My vote is eight.

Title (Brazil): "A Separação" ("The Separation")

Note: The first time I saw this film was on 23 April 2000.

On 16 February 2017, I saw this film again. Would Anne really have a lover?
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8/10
interesting, though tough to watch, slice of life
planktonrules12 March 2006
This was a pretty odd film in that there isn't a whole lot of context for what is occurring and there really isn't any resolution as well. Instead of the typical Hollywood-style film with a firm beginning, middle and end to wrap everything together, this movie is more like a slice taken out of a real couple's marriage--like the viewer is peering in through a keyhole just as a marriage is dissolving. You see the couple in crisis but why and how this all turns out isn't there. Now for some viewers, this will no doubt be maddening--they NEED this information to enjoy the film. However, if you suspend your need for this information and just watch, you'll see that the actors and writers really do a great job of exploring PEOPLE. This really doesn't look like actors acting, but looks like a reality show of sorts. Because of this, this is an exceptional movie technically and gives an unflinching view of heartbreak and loss.
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5/10
Lacks a good story
JesNollie29 April 2003
This is a well filmed, well acted, movie, but it lacks a good story. They're separating, it's sad. It would have made a great short, but at 85 minutes it seems too long. The performances are excellent, and the use of mood and color is nice, but that alone is not enough for a good film. At least not for me.
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9/10
Dorks Rift
writers_reign15 May 2006
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This is just one more example of why French cinema is the best in the world. No real story, no suspense, no sex, no violence BUT! also no cgi, no slasher movie #24, no Hollywood Formula - The Sequel. In short just two of the finest actors on the planet running with a situation in which virtually out of the blue the wife tells the husband she is in love with another man. It's never that quite out of the blue of course and one of the strengths of this movie is the writing on the wall which is in turn projected onto the screen; the smallest hairline fractures in what, on the surface, is a perfect marriage complete with child. Juliette Binoche is a fine actress, no question, but it is virtually impossible to picture anyone other than Isabelle Huppert in the role of Anne and the same applies to Daniel Auteuil as Pierre, each of them fully inhabits the role in which they have been cast and although there is outstanding support from Jerome Deschamps and Karin Viard it is really superfluous. One of the finest films of the 90s, not just from France but from anywhere but it helps if you go to movies to check out the Human Condition rather than to spray popcorn at each other.
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8/10
A Harrowing Blow by Blow Account of a Woman's Selfishness
robert-temple-114 July 2008
This disturbing film directed by Christian Vincent has one of Daniel Auteuil's best and most versatile performances. His 'partner', played with icy intensity by Isabelle Huppert, not only has a sadistic streak, but is wholly self-absorbed. She eyes Auteuil as he suffers because of her callous infidelity with the detachment of an abortionist crushing the head of an infant who has dared to scream after supposedly being 'disposed of' from the womb. Auteuil is at his wits' end, raging, cursing, hugging her, crying, discussing it helplessly with his friends, and the eye at the centre of the storm is the imperturbable Huppert, whose glassy stare and frozen visage are as relentless as a harpy. One puzzle: why does Auteuil go around unshaven all the time looking like a vagabond? So does his best friend. Is this chic? Looks a mess to me! Maybe Huppert has given up on trying to persuade him to shave and hates having her face scratched? Although she is the kind of character who would have pulled the wings off flies as a child, Auteuil's charm does not wholly compensate for his defiantly scruffy appearance, and as a tidy gal, that must get up her nose. This gut-wrenching story of the destruction of a relationship is from a novel, and with a screenplay by the author Dan Franck, who wrote the brilliant 1998 book 'Bohemes' ('Bohemian Paris', Grove Press, New York, 2001), perhaps the best survey of the Montmartre and Montparnasse days ever written. Let's hope it is not autobiographical, as if so, he must still be suffering. However, the detail is so precise, I fear it might all be true. There is a fine performance also by Laurent Lerel, as an au pair girl who loves Autueil from afar, and wishes to comfort him in his distress, but he never notices her. What a sad, sad tale.
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10/10
Isabelle's
Elisabetha4927 September 2020
"Soooo" many scenes and screen-shots where she reminds US all of her career's original break-through, ' La Dentellière', that POUT, those EYES, that ' IMPASIVITY' .... seen also in her later 'WORKS', ... ELLE, L'ivresse du pouvoir ...; such short-sized GIANT of Motion-Picture's expressons ...
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2/10
Unconvincing story
aiu18 August 2004
As the title reveals, the story is about the separation of a couple. No reason for the behavior of the two spouses is given whatsoever, and this behavior remains completely unconvincing though the whole movie. The story is told as seen from a third party, who tries to be fully objective, but, in the end, it only manages to describe two irresolute characters, without any particular strong emotion or feeling.

The two main actors look as if they really do not care about the other or about themselves. At each point of the movie, you feel that both the reconciliation and the divorce are equally plausible, and, after some time, you start to care as much as the two main characters (i.e., at all) about what will happen.
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8/10
No Happy Ending
mfuller-4784229 July 2023
A sober exploration of the disintegration (in mid-course apparently) of a relationship whose breach is spurred by selfishness and a callous disregard for "the other" and a child. Such disregard then leads to betrayal, devastation (of the betrayed), indecision and disorientation of the betrayed---and the death of the relationship and of reality as it was understood beforehand. The betrayed is left with no longer certain of what was ever real, and what can ever be real again with any degree of certainty. Ultimately, one understands why Dantes 9th and lowest circle of hell belong to those who betrayed their ultimate commitments. Watch the film. If you haven't been "there," you will feel it indirectly. If you have been "there," you will live it over again and find some degree of resonance and solidarity with Pierre, who is lost in so many ways at the film's end.....and can't even find his way "home." After all, Home" is gone forever.
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4/10
A film with minimal plot, no point and (1 spoiler ahead)
vijking7 January 2017
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....no resolution.

A generous, generous 4/10, because it's Christmas, Orthodox Christmas, but anyway.

The film is about a woman who tells her husband she's having an affair with another man. Their relationship deteriorates, it swings from hot to cold, he keeps his distance, gives her space, but they still live together, share a child and common friends. At the end he moves out, but comes by to see his kid. She tells him that she's no longer with the other man. That's the whole film.

There is no resolution to the film. The film is not about Anne's relationship with the other man (we never actually see him), but Anne's marriage with Pierre. Once she reveals the affair, the relationship sours. And it just stays sour until the end. She ends her affair, but Pierre remains in no man's land just as he was in the start, unloved by his wife and unsure what to do.

I'm not sure what the point of this film is, other than being some financial or tax scheme.

The acting is top notch, but where's the story? This film is like watching a 90- minute first act, with no second or third.
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5/10
Dan gets cinq
Skylightmovies20 July 2021
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Really horrible tale of a sulky brat old woman who takes her moods to the nth degree and ends up dumping her partner.

Auteuil is gifted in conveying words and thoughts with a most expressive face. Maybe Huppert was chosen to stay straight lipped because anything more would be normal.

Complaint after complaint, zero responsibility and with the detachment of a child abuser, Huppert stares its way through an hour and a half of nothingness which naturally drives Auteuil's character bananas. Mind reading after collecting a baby was not part of the deal one imagines and as Auteuil tries in vain to work out what this empty vessel wants , he loses it anyway.

Unnaturally in their world, the kids are an accessory. No need to focus there.

What in heavens name got these characters together in the first place? Judging from Hupperts lines, falling in love happens and one must be truthful about it. Judging from Hupperts face, love and it, do not a joyful thing make.

I don't know if this film was a warning to self assured guys that your partner maybe replaced with a vacuous clone after a couple of years or to boost Huppert's m.o. With descriptive words such as 'deep' 'enigmatic' 'misunderstood' 'lost' 'sad' or 'traumatised'.

That's all I got.
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