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6/10
Its intentions are good but they could have been better executed
maurodc14 August 2017
I admit that 'Hazlo como hombre' made me laugh a lot, as I'm very much into black comedies with sexual humor throughout. And I also felt a little uncomfortable because I went to see it with my mom who hates that kind of humor (I advice you not to see it with your parents at all costs).

Mauricio Ochmann did a great job as the hateful big male with a mind full of stereotypes against women and of course, against gays too. In general all the performances were good for what this movie is, and well, the very criticized performance of Aislinn Derbez, was sometimes even frightening for me, despite of being exaggerated. The rest of the cast did a nice job.

The script was gross but hilarious for me because as I said before, I have seen a few more films of that type of humor and I could perfectly handle with it.

But however, even tough it has the good intentions of create conscience about all the prejudices and stereotypes against homosexuality that Mexico has nowadays, the way these things are portrayed isn't the best, because the struggles of accepting something so strong like being gay is played in a way that, although probably not as cartoonish as it could have been, it is played in a very superficial way that leaves the viewer with a big doubt: if this movie is really in favor of being tolerant with everyone and to accept who we are, or if what this movie is really in favor with is the idea that no matter what we do, our thoughts about anything will never change, including the bad ones.

Overall, I recommend to see this only for the humor and the nice performances, but only that. Don't buy a ticket for this if you think you're going to see a movie with a great message for everyone because believe me, you will be disappointed.

Thanks for reading!

P.S. It goes without saying that this is one of the films that I would less recommend you to see if you're gay. I'm not, but if you are, you'll be probably wondering as long as you got out of the theater: "WTF was that?"
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5/10
Lots of machismo, crude jokes, and unsatisfying end
crimson-172558 September 2017
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The first time I watched part of this movie, it was at work when I walked into the last 10 minutes of this movie. I thought it was really funny and the interaction between the characters was cute. I thought I'd go ahead and watch the full movie. It wasn't what I expected, or rather, how did one go from complete machista to what happened the last 10 minutes of the movie?

Basically we have 3 best friends, and friend B comes out. Friend C is very supportive and even introduces him to an interested party. Friend A, on the other hand, is vehemently against this and tries everything he can to "cure" friend B, going so far as to send him a prostitute, lesbian porn, and buy a horse for some therapy he saw on the internet. Then one day he goes to see his therapist and tells him about his situation with the friend. The therapist tells him he'll be going through phases as he comes to accept his friend is gay

Honestly, none of the acting really stuck out to me, possibly because it was the over exaggerated type. I especially detested Aislinn Derbez's character. She was just really abusive towards the main character (Santiago), which I can't excuse regardless of circumstances. Likewise, Raul was really disrespectful towards his friend and wife, and at the end of the movie you would think he'd learn something about accepting someone's sexuality but when his child shows "signs" of possibly being gay (playing with a doll), he's trying to change things. Like OK man, how did that go for you last time? In terms of Santiago's relationship, I thought it was really cute, up until the moment his partner reveals he has sex with other men and that "it's OK". I feel like his polyamorous nature should have been discussed beforehand because then it can be taken as being gay = multiple partners is OK

So why did I rate this a 5/10? Because this is an average movie. It has a lot of flaws but it's also showing one POV. Mexican culture is very male oriented and this showed us a story of someone who is still stuck in the past, who still believes that men can do whatever they like towards women and that relationships should only be between a man and a woman. But the movie also constantly mentions that we are now in 2017 and there are new ideas in the world and that people are more accepting (like friend C and friend A's wife). I did think it was very funny but it is rather crude and if you're the type to be overly critical (or just really against) the topics I mentioned above, well, this movie isn't for you
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5/10
OK Mindles Viewing
meaninglessbark24 October 2018
Hazlo Como Hombre is like a long episode of a TV drama-comedy. The jokes are pretty much standard sitcom material, the drama feels like drama for drama's sake.

The film might feel dated to some in that it mainly deals with a straight friend having a major problem dealing with one of his friends being gay. But sitcom cartoonishness aside the story line isn't really out of date yet.

Hazlo Como Hombre isn't a great or clever film, but it's fairly good as mindless viewing of something light and queer.
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7/10
Very funny... if you speak Spanish
miriam_tierna11 January 2019
The acting was very exaggerated even for a comedy. But I had a few LOL moments with the movie.
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1/10
biggest crap of the year
briefexistance27 August 2017
my god! this was, in a few words: painful to watch! had stupid forced jokes, machismo (or very low respect for woman, antifeministic, for those who are not familiar with the term), very lame and poorly developed storyline, which basically is how this guy reacts to the fact his friend is gay! THAT'S ALL!, really baaaaad performances (excepting Aislinn), and in the end, they want us to forgive them just because it has some morality, bad sex jokes who mexicans adore and friendship/family values bullsh*t.

I want a refund, i cannot believe i paid for watch this complete utterly SH*T.

if you want good Mexican cinema watch instead "Después de Lucía". That's intense and actually leaves you with the impression that you just had seen art. This is garbage, and an embarrassment. Do not pay for this. I had warned you.
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4/10
Good idea but poorly executed.
alanramirez13 September 2017
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I wasn't particularly excited about this movie, as I'm gay and the trailers just made the film look like a big giant mess. I felt like it would be a big homophobic movie, because let's face it, Mexico is a homophobic county and making fun of gays would be a success. I still decided to give it a chance, but I'm not really shocked at how bad it was. The problem with the movie is that by the first 5 minutes, you're really annoyed at how the characters curse IN EVERY SENTENCE they say. Sure, that's how most Mexican comedies are, but after that opening scene, you're pretty sure of how the rest is going to be. Another problem with the movie is the pace... it feels like everything happens so slowly, as for more than half of the movie you have the main character Raul making homophobic jokes that might be funny the first two times you hear them, but after that, the same jokes are made and you barely laugh. You also have Miss Aislinn Derbez, who did a good job on A La Mala but on this one she delivers a cringy performance. She ends up screaming and basically is annoying the audience on every scene she's in, I believe this is because of the poor writing and direction. The only character with depth is the gay character, played by Alfonso Dosal, who delivers a believable performance, but you are not able to care about him, as his character gets very little screen time.

You can tell that the script for this movie was poorly written, as the scenes basically repeat themselves four or five times with similar lines or jokes. It feels like nothing happens until the last 20 minutes, when after Raul's wife finds out he has been cheating on her, he finally opens his eyes, but it's too late to care about him, because you could care less about him at the end of the movie. I believe that the film could had been much better with faster pacing, different jokes and more depth for all the characters because the potential was there but it was so poorly executed. I still applaud that the movie gives a message of tolerance and acceptance, but it ends up being clouded for how bad the rest of the movie was.
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8/10
About friendship and one man's (comical) struggle against his own homophobia
imdb-161754 September 2017
Just as I think of the movie Jeffrey as being set in an alternate 1995 where everyone in New York City is gay friendly, Hazlo Commo Hobre seems to be set in an alternate 2017 Mexico City where where only one guy in all of Mexico City seems to be homophobic (not counting some trash talk from sports opponents). Just random strangers question Jeffrey's reluctance to have another boyfriend, and the particular one he's met who is HIV+, none of Raúl's friends and relatives understand his reaction to his friend being gay. It also reminds me of the Saturday Night Live fake commercial showing parents of gay children popping pills that treat homophobia.

I have a soft spot for movies centered around male friendship, even nonsexual; that's one of the many reasons I identify as a gay man. I liked the rough macho affection between Raúl and Santiago, and was really rooting for their friendship to survive. I like how his loyalty is unwavering and his homophobia takes the form of disbelief and of ham-handed attempts to cure his friend of what he sees as an illness. The only similar movie I recall ever seeing is Date and Switch (2014).

The reported cursing was toned down somewhat in the English subtitles for the U.S. release. I caught just enough of the Spanish dialog to notice a couple of times when words like "jerk" and "idiot" were translated from p--- and m------ words I think are a little stronger, and maybe I missed the even more colorful stuff because I'd never heard those words at all. And speaking of offense, contrary to one reviewer being offended on my behalf and the disclaimers in the closing titles I wasn't fluent enough to fully read, I for one was not offended by anything in the movie, and I found it refreshing that Santiago didn't conform to any gay stereotypes (in my culture anyway) and that his straight friend Eduardo kind of did. (I do in turn feel offended on behalf of women when the guys refuse to forego one last video game to set the table for the meal the women are implied to have cooked, and I imagine they don't appreciate the attitude Raúl expresses about women in his brags.)
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4/10
Riddiculous
charliethetuna-5136722 December 2019
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This movie is basically about 3 friends that has have a "men's life" and one of them (santiago) confesses that he is gay and raul thinks that he is confused, so he do everything possible to make him "normal". The movie its full of bad and nonsense jokes.
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1/10
Another piece of crap by Nicolás López.
villalabeitia29 December 2019
Only this time, it is also full of clichés, stereotypes, and what he considers to be "open mindedness", but ends up being the complete opposite.

Awful acting as usual with most of his movies.

Avoid at all costs.
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3/10
One of the worst movies
javierubio31 March 2020
If i had to name the top 5 movies being the worst, this would be the number one! I am not sure if the Director or the writer had the idea to picture a gay life with no sense of bad acting and terribly story to place in a great city Mexico city. Love and drama can be expressed in a better way that this bad acting and a boring story where instead of making it more romantic, it was a total disaster! Not to mention it was not funny at all, just over the top (i mean terribly acing) and bringing a fake story to the gay community!
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1/10
I bailed it was so bad
drew-151946 June 2023
This is a terrible and offensive film. Under the guise of pretending to be supportive, tolerant, and modern, it dredges up every old homophobic reaction and wallows in them endlessly until it dawns on the viewer that the offensive stuff is the point. The supportive pretense is just window dressing so that the filmmakers can spend 90% of this film trying to wring laughs out of ignorance, conversion therapy, fear, bullying, and fighting. Instead of making gayness the brunt of jokes, like a dreadful film from the 1950s, it would have been far more interesting for 3 friends - one of whom has just come out - to tackle a nongay situation together and watch them change, grow, make mistakes, and in the end realize it is no big deal - their friendship is the big deal. Instead we get writing that is abysmal, characters that are mostly stereotypes, and extreme overacting like they're playing clowns 🤡 at the circus. Tbh, it got so annoying I bailed midway through. This is definitely not comic: it's a dreadful and offensive mess.
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