- Hank Rizzoli: The bottom line is, I push people away. People get close to me, and I just, uh, uh, I start acting like a jackass around 'em. And I just, uh, eventually, I just, like, wear 'em down, and they go away. You know, I hate that. I hate that about myself. But, uh, uh, I'm trying to change. I'm trying to get... I'm trying hard... Because when I look at you... I see a beautiful woman, a beautiful woman. And despite everything I've done... despite all the crap that I've pulled and, and stupid things that I've said... you, you're still here. You're... You didn't, uh... leave. And that's, uh, shocking to me. You know, just... gives me... hope. You know, you didn't go away. I don't wanna push you away. I like being around you too much.
- Dr. Pelikan: So when you moved to Minnesota to be with your daughter, you had just started your relationship with Sarah. Did you talk to her about the move?
- Hank Rizzoli: Yeah. Yeah, I mean I told her about it. Hmm.
- Dr. Pelikan: It sounds like she made a big decision for you, breaking up with her fiancé... and then you left.
- Hank Rizzoli: Yeah, but... I mean, she's a mom.
- Dr. Pelikan: Mm-hmm.
- Hank Rizzoli: She understood.
- Dr. Pelikan: Do you think it's possible that she understood... but she was still upset?
- Hank Rizzoli: No... No, it wasn't like that.
- Dr. Pelikan: In our work here... you may start questioning some things that you previously took as truths. That's part of the process. I think you should reach out to Sarah. I think you should reach out to her and try to understand her point of view. If you want to make some progress in the relationship, maybe you owe her an apology first.