Fireproof (2008)

Phyllis Malcom: Cheryl Holt

Quotes 

• Cheryl Holt : Although love is communicated in a number of ways, our words often reflect the condition of our heart.

  Cheryl Holt : Resolve to say nothing negative. If the temptation arises, choose not to say anything.

  Cheryl Holt : It's better to hold your tongue than to say something you'll regret.

  Cheryl Holt : Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.

  Cheryl Holt : Do at least one unexpected gesture as an act of kindness.

  Cheryl Holt : Whatever you put your time, energy, and money into, it will become more important to you. It's hard to care for something you're not investing in.

  Cheryl Holt : When a man is trying to win the heart of a woman, he studies her. He learns her likes, dislikes, habits, and hobbies. But after he wins her heart and marries her, he often stops learning about her. If the amount he studied her before marriage was equal to a high-school degree, he should continue to learn about her until he gains a college degree, a master's degree, and ultimately a doctorate degree. It is a lifelong journey that draws his heart ever closer to hers.

  Cheryl Holt : You can't love her, because you can't give her what you don't have.